When my mum and dad passed away, I found myself in one of the most emotional and tender roles I’ve ever taken on — that of planning and leading their funeral ceremonies. As a celebrant, I’ve always believed in the power of a personalised farewell but experiencing it from the perspective of a grieving daughter deepened my understanding profoundly.
For me, creating their ceremonies felt like a final act of care — a way of still looking after them, even after they were gone. It was a privilege I will always hold close.
What mattered most in those moments was ensuring that their personalities came through — not just the facts of their lives, but who they really were. Their quirks. Their sense of humour. The stories that made them light up a room. We included music they loved, readings that felt right, and shared memories that made people smile — even laugh — through their tears.
And that laughter was comforting. It reminded us all that their lives were full, rich, and touched many people in joyful ways. That’s the power of a ceremony that truly reflects the individual — it becomes a celebration, not just a goodbye.
Too often, people assume that funerals must follow a strict format — sombre, structured, and formal. But the truth is, there’s no “one way” to say farewell. Whether you want something traditional, alternative, light-hearted, deeply reflective, or something in between, I can help you shape a ceremony that feels right for you and your loved one.
We can include favourite songs, meaningful rituals, poetry, shared storytelling, or even a few surprises. The important thing is that it feels personal. Real. Them.
If you’re navigating a loss — or thinking ahead and planning a ceremony for someone special — please know that you don’t have to do it alone. Together, we can create a farewell that honours your loved one in all the ways that matter most.
Because every life deserves to be remembered with warmth, love, and authenticity.